Charles, 32, said, “I’d try again, maybe I wasn't loud enough.”
I think that’s hilarious! But hey, let’s interpret the scene – A man probably
goes on his knee, in a classy restaurant accompanied with a beautiful
atmosphere and asked his lady: “will you marry me?” She paused for a while,
looked at him and said, “No!” Damn, what could have gone wrong? What did he not
do right? Yes! Marriage is an interesting but sensitive side of life. Everyone
desires the best among men and women – maybe a total partner. We are aware of the
fact that, that’s the time to make a physical and life commitment if we decide
to accept, hence, care is necessary. But after a re-echoing “No!” how do you
move on?
STAND UP AND DUST OFF
Rejection is a good way of seeing yourself; a way to do
things better. It could be emotionally draining if at that stage of your
relationship, your partner still won’t allow you be a spouse. Could that be
years wasted? Mind you, you can’t be in a friend-zone with someone and be
proposing, there must be something real going on. Or I guess you knew all along
but you’d wanted to keep pushing the relationship, maybe or just maybe she would
agree. Relax friend, not everyone we love must love us back! We all have the
consciousness of who we want as a partner and remember: if you are not too good for her, you are so
perfect to another – STAND UP AND DUST
OFF!
SERIOUSLY, THERE IS
NOTHING TO CHANGE
Alex, 25, said “maybe because I’m short!” Well, but can you
change that? Don’t short people get marry? “Oh, I’m a school drop-out, that’s
why!” Well, nothing is changing. “I know her mom doesn't like me” Well, do
you want to change that? No matter the reasons, some things can’t be changed. You
can’t grow taller for her sake; you can’t get back to school all of a sudden; you can’t force
her mom to like you. She has to live with that or rejects your proposal just
as done.
DOES THIS MAKE YOU LESS
A MAN?
No! Not in any way if you are not making any of these 14 regular mistakes singles make. Nothing should
make you inferior. You are not just her
kind of man but other ladies want you, know that. Don’t disappoint them. Establish another
good relationship and see it work and remember, she’s not at fault; you’re
somehow not just her choice.
MOVING ON ISN'T EASY
BUT NECESSARY
There is no level of a relationship where there
can’t be a break-up – even marriages experience divorce. Would you have
preferred an open marriage or a quick divorce? It doesn't matter how many years you've spent together, a rejected marriage proposal is evidently saving you
from the marital turbulence you’d gone through. Stand up and dust off,
a lady is waiting right behind! I know it could be difficult starting all over;
you’d wish you save your dying relationship
and lead it to marriage but however you chose to move on, move on the right way.
Let your rejection lead you to the direction where you are going to meet people
of your kind. It isn't time to re-awake your interest in clubbing or go visit
the brothels, NO. Point is, getting drunk doesn't change the situation because
when you’re back to life, you’d remember what made you drunk again. Head to the
right places, go out with friends, attend ceremonies, concerts, seminars, free
your mind and open it to love again. Yeah, moving on is hard but you’re never
going to be waiting for who you lost. Stand up and dust off, that should not
make you inferior to other men; you are never less a man, move on the right way
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