Wondering why he hasn't proposed?
And since it's been about 7 years now, you are scared he won't propose ever again? I understand - He hasn't proposed to me and it’s looking like 7 good years of my life is about being wasted! Naah, i won't allow this guy go away from your
life just like that. Naah! Oh, what if he's the wrong guy? What if he's really
not into you from the start? Or maybe he told you there would be nothing serious
from the start or you probably knew you were a side-chick? Tell me the chorus
"I love him so much"....Yeah, we all do love something. Actually, we
love something that's not worth losing at all. Wait! He was everything to you
and you were everything to him. He talks about having you forever but he’s not
just asking you to marry him yet and the years are counting. So, if you're this
worried about why he hasn't proposed yet, i guess you really don't wanna lose
this guy? Now i get it, i will help, would you allow me?
Don't get it twisted. Sometime last year i wrote why he won't propose. I'm writing this because this morning, I made a traffic search
of my keywords and i saw that about 18.15% of my readers via Google were in
this trouble. And as the helping guy, i really wanna address this specifically
and i think it's a little advanced content for why he hasn't proposed over the years.
Now relax beautiful, let’s say after 8 years of your life
and some guy been acting like a retard, booking space in your life? Not just a
space, but such that can take 4 different guys in a relationship with 2 years of
break up each. Naah, that's crazy! Yours is a whole 7 years of saying NO
to others guys. 7 years of believing and possibly having some hot sex. And he
won’t ask you to marry him yet? Whoops! I'm sure right. I actually think you
would be losing so much from everywhere and not just his love. Of course, I'm
still gonna help you. Now get yourself relaxed and be aware of what you will be
losing. I need you to be ready to read carefully. I won't let this guy go from
you, yeah;its operation make a guy propose. But hey! Remember, i break up bad
relationships too, huh? Alright, enough of playing games with your mind. Now,
let's go force someone to propose - a relationship of 7 years is worth this
energy.
Hey lady, do you ever pay attention to his worries? Can you
remind yourself of what he has been complaining about in the past few years?
Yeah, let's start from there. The truth about most men is that they don’t admit
their weakness. A man could even be guilty of what he’s complaining about you.
He may even be worse than you do but his ego won’t allow him admit that, at
least not to your face. Even at that, he would desire that you are not like him.
He would desire you do those things that he’s guilty of not doing. Well, in
your language, you can call this the man-factor but in relationship language,
it’s called; compatibility. A man would always seek and propose to a woman that
will complement him. They both cannot look the same in their weaknesses. He may
find it easy to have a relationship with you but when it comes to marriage
which is the home proper, you just may not be fit enough. My advice to you is
that you pay attention to his regular complains and try getting better. Then, if
he doesn’t appreciate your effort at getting better or he now complains the
more, look at his face and tell him that he also have got his weaknesses that
you’ve been managing with. Yeah, say that with courage! I endorse it.
The No. 2 reason why he hasn't proposed over the couple of years is when you’ve made yourself the boss of the
relationship. Truly some men could be feminine in thinking; some could be
easily taken advantage off. But no matter the nature of temperament of your
man/husband, your job is not to train him, never! You job is to allow him lead
while you either chose to follow or walk beside him BUT he must a step ahead of
you and not the other way round. This is the problem of many women, maybe the
‘modern’ women. Most ladies that clamor for equal right had better know that
it’s good for the society but it’s not good for a home that would be forever.
In all fairness, i say no to sexism in any sane society. Every gender should be
allowed and made to work out his/her strength. But in marriage, it’s a little
different. You cannot boss your man or you’re husband-to-be and not him. No man
will ever allow you lead him even if he’s poor and you’re the money-generator.
Every man has got the masculine-factor that won’t allow you. The hidden truth
to this is that, he may not complain and he won’t propose. No matter the
century that we belong, no matter the country you’re reading this from; don’t
be ahead of your man. If he’s too backward or lowly for your class or standard,
you can break up with him but don’t marry him with the intention of you leading him
or the home. Always ask for his opinion even if you’re the one spending your
money or having the benefit. And when you’ve made him feel like a man that he
truly his, you need not to worry why he hasn’t proposed. Soon, he would ask you
that precious question; will you marry me? Get prepared!
The No. 3 proposal concern is when you are not an asset but a liability.
Of what value are you to the relationship? Maybe you don’t get it – what do you
represent in the relationship? That could determine why he hasn't proposed to you. Are you just a sex-machine? Of course, so many
men are now trying-out their sexual skills by splashing cum on the face of as
many women they won’t marry. Don’t tell me you want to make him happy, he just
won’t marry you! Hey, I’m not talking from old centuries; I’m stating the
hidden truth. If all you do is watch porny with him and try-out all the
positions from each clip, then you’re not worth proposing to. Sex doesn’t hold a
marriage just as having a baby for him won’t make him stay. The substance you
have will determine what you can offer the relationship. I’m not talking about
the lady that makes all the money, neither am I talking about the “Miss
Independent” that won’t stop posting the status on every social platform. I’m
talking your worth! If he doesn’t see your worth as a potential wife, then you
would be a waste of marital space. Before you worry your mind about why he
hasn’t proposed yet, ask a sincere friend that doesn’t like you to weigh you on
the scale of 1 – 10 in the following:
- Education
- Life-style
- Knowledge about Sport, Politics, Travel, Health, Finance/Investment, Spiritual.
- Motherhood traits and
- Romance.
If you could score 6.5 or 7 from the list above
and he won’t propose yet after 7 years, find a new man and you will surely get
one within a month. I endorse that. Your value in a relationship could make a
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